Dear Emma,
When I was a child, I remember picking up my bellbottom pants at the dressmaker one time. In the early 60’s I could not find any kind of long pants or jeans that were long enough and slim enough. In those days, Marilyn Monroe was the fashionable shape. Although Twiggy was slowly becoming a trend, in my part of the world, it was still more common for women to be shorter and curvier. Alas, I was pretty much a straight line more like Olive Oil at between twelve and fourteen.
Another client was just leaving the dressmaker as I was entering and she asked me how my mother and grandmother were doing. Of course, I shared the latest updates on my newly divorced mother and lifesaver grandmother who had taken us in not realizing I may have been a bit too open. Being naïve, then, was just assuming that people always inquired about you because they cared.
I remember trying on the charcoal grey bellbottoms and was so excited they fit like a glove and were long enough to wear with a boot or higher healed show. That was the beauty of tailor made clothes. Fortunately, her fees were very reasonable and in fact, less expensive than going to a designer shop to purchase clothes.
As I was leaving, the dressmaker looked at me seriously and said, “You must be careful. You are such an open book and you never know the true intentions of people when inquiring about you and your family.” I could tell she was concerned for me and I always tried to remember her wise words, but still, it is still difficult for me to think anyone would want to hurt me intentionally. And so years went by and I learned the hard way. I find learning through life experience teaches more, don’t you? What have you learned better through experience rather than through teachings of another person?
( a cherita)
a child runs freely through the woods
Stumbling on hidden roots and branches
Scraping arms and knees along the way
Fastforward several decades
Walking through the woods, listening to the birds singing
Leaves rustling, she leans on her walking stick
© Cheryl-Lynn ‘18/09/06
Daily Moments with Emma – August 9th, 2018
This is nice. 🙂
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Thanks so much. Celestine.<3
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Thank you for this, CherylLynn. This popped up in my emails and aside from needing to get back to WP in general, I needed to read this. It’s true that Discernment is a hard lesson. I love the poem too. I have never heard of a “cherita” form, but I love the juxtaposition in this. Merci 🙏!
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Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to comment. I know what you mean about getting back to WP. I have neglected it for quite some time…but life does go on, doesn’t it. Salut!
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So beautiful. I love the Dear Emma Posts
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Thanks so much, Shivangi. I am sharing it under my real name now (getting brave) .Namaste, Cheryl-Lynn xx
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